Every matter including relationships between men and women is designed to result in the way you wish. It is only a social custom that you have to meet someone at a certain time of your life and to get married.

   Furthermore, even if you are not considering marriage, people can have good relationships with men or women. It is often said that men and women can't be good friends. However, there are many examples of this kind of friendship, yet we are just not accustomed to it. Particularly for those who are practicing at Suseonjae, I think trainees should move on while sublimating their relationships.

Q. How should I understand gays and lesbians? Also, do you think that people with the same last name and the same family tree should not marry?

A. In terms of energy with respect to the harmony of "Yin and Yang," a male who has more "Yin" energy becomes gay, and a female with more "Yang" energy becomes a lesbian. Therefore, it can be seen as a phenomenon stemming from an energy imbalance.

   From birth, these people have an imbalance of energy. That's why even though someone may be a man, he doesn't have any feelings toward women because he has too much "Yin." Instead, he is attracted to the same sex. When a woman has too much "Yang," she has no feelings toward men, but only toward women.

   In the case of those with the same last name or the same family tree in Korea, only the last name and the family tree of the male side count. For the female side, there are no regulating rules no matter whether she is involved with a first cousin or a third cousin. The law is therefore considered to be discriminative; but I believe you shouldn't marry within three cousins when considering genetics. Beyond this, the same last name and the same family tree are of no real importance.