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Creating Harmony Between Practice and Living (1)

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Q. What can I do about conflict with my family or the people around me while practicing?


A. You must achieve harmony between practice and living. You can practice for a long time only when you have the wisdom to win over your family. In order to make this happen, you are better off taking the position, "Even though I can give in to nine out of ten things you want from me, I can't yield on the last one - Practice." In addition to that, continue having conversations with them.


You can give up everything that your family wants except one, which is, "I will never give up my practice." And if you continue to say this to your family explicitly and implicitly, at some point they will begin to understand your mind as long as they are not idiots. Because you give them everything else they want, they will recognize that they would be crossing the line if they additionally request that you budge on what you really want.


Therefore those who practice here have to participate in their family affairs well. There is no worse thing to do than to stubbornly push for what you want. You should give your family time to get themselves ready, and you can't handle the matter in a way that is just declaration.


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